How To Find Love After 40 | Ep 171
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In this uplifting conversation, Lisa Ratner shares how she found love at age 45—proving it’s never too late for connection or companionship. After years of personal growth and self-discovery, Lisa learned to date with intention, embrace practice (and a few frogs), and teaches women to release the fear that “there aren’t enough good men out there.” She opens up about the inner work that made all the difference, the mindset shift that changed her dating life, and the “tall-enough” man who finally matched her energy. Whether you’re reentering the dating world after marriage or simply looking for inspiration, this episode is a masterclass in confidence, clarity, and compatibility.0:00 Introduction to Lisa Ratner, meet husband at age 454:50 Learned to know who I’m looking for and how I feel6:17 “I don’t want to be alone because there are not enough good guys out there”9:20 Where to start after being married for so long15:00 Dating requires practice, kiss a lot of frogs18:18 Do some inner work and take action. Get out there21:00 If you don’t like the people getting in touch with you online, this is what you need to do26:02 So many great men no online29:21 Her husband’s height? He’s “tall enough to reach most shelves”30:00 What makes you and your husband so compatible?Lisa RatnerCertified Matchmaker and Founder of Lisa Ratner Matchmaking & CoachingAfter 23 years in HR consulting, Lisa made a bold career pivot into the world of modern matchmaking. She received her certification from the Global Love Institute, the longest-running matchmaking school in the world, and now brings both personal insight and professional expertise to the dating space. With decades of experience in relationship-building in the workplace and her own decades-long journey to find lasting love, Lisa offers a personalized, hands-on approach that helps singles feel seen, supported, and hopeful in their search for love. She can’t wait to hear your story.Website: lisaratnermatchmaking.com/ LI: linkedin.com/in/lisa-ratner-matchmaking/IG: @lisaratnermatchmakingEmail: info@lisaratnermatchmaking.comAMAZON BEST SELLER Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?... Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/p...Email: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: / twoasianmatchmakers Instagram: / matchmakermay Tiktok: / asianmatchmaker88 LinkedIn: / mayhui ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. May’s insights and work have been featured in major media outlets including Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, and Huffington Post, establishing her as a go-to expert in love, dating, and human connection.




